Recently I added a kindergarden + same primary school (after I transferred) + who's also my secondary school best friend's best girl pal (after my bestie transferred school) on Facebook. Yes what a link we both shared.
We were in the same kindergarden class and I remembered her as a shy and quiet girl. We weren't friends but somehow know of each others presence. I think I talked to her only once or twice.
After I had transferred to HGS, we met again. I could not remember if she actually remembered me but I remembered her and approached her telling her she was in the same kindergarden as me (I think that was how we started talking!). I used to go over her house or to the nearby playground together with another primary school friend of ours to play. I even bullied my maid who had to carry my baby Bro into being the catcher to start the ball rolling while playing at the playground! Lol. I know it was not right but I was still young ok. Even though the 3 of us were from different classes but taking the same school bus, we would always meet to play. Yes you have guessed it, we were staying very very closed to each other, same street but different blocks. Everyday, while waiting for our school bus to arrive, we would play five stones together with my classmate who was also taking the same school bus too, or buying lots of tibits to munch in the bus or picking saga seeds (my school compound had abundant of it!) Those days were fun, and I really missed it =(.
Somehow, meeting up became less frequent, and I started taking the public transport by myself during primary 5, so ended up losing contact during the midst of our primary school days. Quite sad, and being young we did not know the importance of staying in contact.
Moving on to secondary school, my best friend transferred out to a school near her place. I could not remember how I knew my kindergarden friend was also her friend. But because of awkwardness, the both of us still didn't stay in contact.
I knew she was in the same poly as me too, but in the Business building, and if I was not wrong, should be the same course as my sec sch bestie. When Friendster was the hot social network site, I added her.
After poly and started working, this was the period that Friendster craze started to die down. I neglected my page and soon forgotten about her presence. Until 2 weeks ago, I chanced upon her page in FB from my bestie's photo. Only till today while browsing through her photos, then I realised she recently got married! Was alittle surprised, because I least expected her to get married so early. She is the kinda girl who totally enjoys holidaying, the sun and she have that career woman aura. Seeing her cheery face in her wedding photos, I am really happy for her! And hope she has a blissful marriage too! =) The wedding was held at beginning of the year, and currently she is on her 1 month honeymoon trip with her hubby, enjoying the sun and the sea.
Seeing friends of my age getting married actually feels funny and bewildered. At this point of time, I ought to see more of it and will get more common soon, but I don't know why do I feel weird and surprised about it. Haha. At 24, everyone grows up, get more serious with life, girlfriends will start to get married first, then the guy friends and the next thing I will hear them saying they are having babies! =))
Sigh, why do we have to grow up so quickly. I feel so underachieved and a woman trapped in a girl's mindset, can time slow down alittle!
I really missed my childhood days.
Seeing her blissfully married, I am tempted to say.. when is my turn! Hahaha.
Oh well, unless miracle happens that allows me to find the right person to unlock that trapped door within me.
